2024 Luxe Summer Shopping Ideas

I set up my first Tap to Shop list: https://tapto.shop/pearlpeony/p/66a0109c2b222f3f04e4d52a – with the theme of summer season shopping. Hope you like this selection of clothes, bags, and shoes!

Feel free to click on the above link, or shop in the list below. I added some new favorites for the summer season. Let me know what else you’re interested in shopping — happy to make curated shopping lists and/or deal lists.

Selkie dress on sale!

I also wanted to announce that I’m accepting clients for fashion styling. If you’re interested in building a new wardrobe, refreshing your current wardrobe, or simply want some guidance for how to find great deals for your dream style — let me know. Here’s my listing on Fiverr.

VERSACE Baroque Print Skirt in Pink • Versace
Patent Mary Jane Ballerina Flats • Prada •
2003 medium Classic Double Flap shoulder bag • Chanel Pre Owned •
2000 Classic Double Flap small shoulder bag • Chanel Pre Owned •
2014 Classic Double Flap shoulder bag • Chanel Pre Owned •
Latoya Blazer Mini Dress • Alice + Olivia •
Willa Fitted Placket Bell-Sleeve Top • Alice + Olivia •
Poppy Dress • Cara Cara •
Julietta Dress • Cara Cara •
Kourtney Dress • Reformation •
Max Block Heel • Reformation •
Marsinia Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Bello Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Kesia Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Sal Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Koto Top • LoveShackFancy •
Rhoswen Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Serima Tiered Floral Lace Sleeveless Mini Dress • LoveShackFancy •
Selkie The Debutante Beach Day Dress • Selkie The Debutante Beach Day Dress •
Selkie The Puff Dress • Selkie The Puff Dress •
Selkie x REVOLVE The Bebe Bloom Dress • Selkie x REVOLVE The Bebe Bloom Dress •
Arno Bustier • LoveShackFancy •
Becca Tote • Kate Spade •
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The Opposite of Love

As a huge fan of theatre, I was excited to be invited as a member of press to attend “The Opposite of Love,” presented by NewYorkRep. This play was staged at the Royal Family Performing Arts Space in New York City, a beautiful venue with an intimate setting in a restored landmark building.

Theatre has always been a space where complex human emotions are laid bare, inviting audiences to confront issues, reflect on meaning, and empathize with characters. “The Opposite of Love” is no exception. This powerful play dives deep into themes of love, intimacy, trauma, and healing, offering a poignant exploration that resonates on multiple levels.

Opening night photo – May 30, 2024, by Jeremy Varner

Trigger Warnings

“The Opposite of Love” tackles potentially triggering topics, including:

  • Sexual abuse, asssault, and non-consensual acts
  • Emotional and psychological trauma
  • Discussion of suicide
  • Graphic sexual language
  • Depictions of intimacy
Production photo by Jeremy Varner

The Story

“The Opposite of Love” is a contemporary drama set in NYC that centers around two characters: a young wealthy woman who is grappling with the aftermath of childhood sexual trauma and a down-on-his-luck male prostitute who learns more about himself and his own trauma. In the script, Eloise is described as a beautiful girl with tragic thoughts and Will is described as a tragic boy with beautiful thoughts. These descriptions ring true!

When we think about the opposite of love, the first thing that comes to mind is hatred but actually — the opposite of love is really indifference.

Production photo by Jeremy Varner

The Talkback with NYSCASA

Following the performance, there was an insightful and impactful talkback session with the cast of the play and a representative from the New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NYSCASA). NYSCASA plays a crucial role in supporting survivors of sexual violence and advocating for systemic change to prevent future violence. They are working to create a world where survivors are believed, supported, and empowered to heal.

The talkbalk highlighted the importance of community support and resources for those affected by sexual violence. It was a reminder of the real-world implications of the play’s themes and the ongoing efforts needed to address these critical issues.

The Cast and Crew

The strength of “The Opposite of Love” lies in its exceptional cast and crew, who bring the story to life with nuanced performances and sensitive direction.

Written by Ashley Griffin
Directed by Rachel Klein

Starring Danny Gardner as Will
Starring Ashley Griffin as Eloise

Set: Brendan Mc Cann
Lighting: Zach Pizza

Intimacy Director: Crista Marie Jackson

Stage Manager: Kelly Merritt

General Manager: Kaylin Kellin

Human beings…we’re not meant to be alone. To never be touched.

Eloise

The Opposite of Love has limited engagement plays until June 15. If you attend this play, I’d love to hear your feedback in the comments!

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Introducing 42Lolita

Have you heard of 42Lolita? 42Lolita is the official Lolita shop of 42agent. I’ve been a loyal customer of 42agent since 2013 (back in their Taobaoring days!). You may have seen my blog posts about Taobao shopping (here: post 1, post 2, and post 3). Lots of great Lolita indie brands are on Taobao, and 42Lolita makes it even easier to snag cute clothes and accessories. If you’d like to shop there, use my code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order!

The pre-order for this collab between Taobao brand NyaNya and Puella Magi Madoka Magica ended on May 31, but 42lolita reserved some extras for customers who missed the reservation. If you’re a lolita who’s also a fan of this anime, these two OPs are perfect for you!

Don’t miss out if you’re interested in these– right now, only sizes XL and 2XL are still available.

If you’re looking for a staple piece available in a variety of sizes, I found this cute summer lolita blouse. It’s still available in sizes ranging from XS to 2XL, plus there’s a customized size option. The Taobao brand is Miss Cube.

It’s also made from cotton, which I love to wear during hot days!

If you’re interested in upgrading your petticoat to a hoop skirt for the summer, I found this Lolita hoop skirt for only $7.99! It’s a great deal. A few years ago, I got my first hoopskirt, and I love wearing it on really hot days since it keeps the voluminous shape for the skirts, but it lets my legs breathe.

I am pretty sure this hoopskirt is the same one I bought a few years ago through 42agent. Now that they have 42lolita, it’s much easier to shop!

If you’re looking for a cute bag, this Boguta bow bag has been super popular.

It comes in many different colorways. I love the oversized bow design! It also comes with two sets of detachable straps so you can switch it up between the faux leather ruffle straps or the pearl chain straps. You can wear this bag as a backpack, shoulder bag, or handheld bag. It also comes in 3 different sizes!

If you’ve shopped at 42lolita before, I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Don’t forget to use my coupon code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order! Thanks for reading, and happy shopping. 🙂

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