“Lili/Darwin” – A Poetic Solo Show of Trans Identity- NYC

New York, NY — I had the opportunity to attend Lili/Darwin, a powerful solo performance, at The Tank. This show was written and performed by the talented Darwin Del Fabro. I first discovered Darwin from the queer slasher horror film They/Them, and was thrilled to be invited to this show. If you didn’t have the chance to see Lili/Darwin yet, it runs through August 23, 2025 so you still have time to check it out!

Lili/Darwin brilliantly merges two intimate journeys: that of Darwin Del Fabro, and of Lili Elbe—the transgender artist whose diaries from 1907-1930 inspired the narrative. If you know who Lili is prior to the show, you’ll love the pieces of history from her diaries sprinkled throughout the show. If you don’t know who Lili is, this is a great introduction! Darwin portrays Lili and herself with sensitivity and strength, moving seamlessly between eras, personas, and emotional landscapes.

Let’s talk about the staging: it was cool to see how the identities were differentiated in a visual manner— Lili Elbe appears on one side with a vintage chair, Darwin on the other with a stool. There were also moments where the lines were blurred. It was visually stunning and I loved the use of lighting and shadow underscore shifts in mood. My eyes were also drawn to the beautiful Dior heels as a symbol of femininity.

The show was brimming with emotional honesty and I felt myself tear up multiple times during the performance. At its core, Lili/Darwin is a testament to the power of authentic storytelling. It’s a deeply personal tribute to visibility, resilience, and the often-overlooked courage of trans narratives—spoken directly by a trans artist herself.

Details & Ticket Info

  • Where: The Tank, 312 W 36th St, New York, NY 10018
  • When: Performances are Thursday to Saturday evenings through August 23, 2025.
  • Tickets: Available here.

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🏳️‍🌈 Celebrate PRIDE: Nymphia Wind’s “BANANAS?” at The Town Hall NYC 🍌

I wore yellow to match the bananas 🍌

Last night, The Town Hall was transformed into a vivid explosion of drag artistry for Nymphia Wind’s debut NYC show, BANANAS?. The Town Hall, founded in 1921 by suffragists, has hosted historic performances—from Marian Anderson’s New York debut to Langston Hughes’ discussion on how “the Race Question” should be handled in America. Last night, it carved a new chapter into its legacy—ushering in a bold, unapologetic celebration of queer, Asian drag at a moment when visibility matters more than ever.

Fresh off winning season 16 of RuPaul’s Drag Race, Taiwanese drag queen Nymphia Wind brought her theatrical vision to the stage at the historic Town Hall. The show highlighted Asian drag voices in both local and international talent. The lineup of supporting performers included drag artists Angel Au, Felicia Oh, Shia Ho, Chiang Weiii, Hibiscus, Draggy Boo Boo, and Hannah Monina, as well as dancers Fiona Tsang, Rio Kikuchi, Jeffrey Pelayo, and Klint Dimpas. Hosted by veteran drag queen Sequida Hall, the evening struck the perfect balance between theatrical spectacle and intimate connection with the community.

Nymphia Wind drew on a rich palette of creative influences—from Peking opera to avant-garde performance artists and pop music icons. The variety of different styles was vividly on display: bold visual art, inventive choreography, awe-inspiring costumes, and moments that veered into the territory of living art installations. The stage even erupted with bananas literally catapulting into the audience. Yes– actual bananas, banana snacks, inflatable bananas, and more. The air was filled with irrepressible queer joy.

Nymphia Wind’s BANANAS? wasn’t just a drag show—it was a fierce proclamation of joy, resilience, and identity. And of course, the show was utterly bananas. 🌈

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New Year, New Wardrobe: Lolita Fashion

The new year is a time for fresh starts, new goals, and…a new wardrobe! If you’re looking to add elegance and whimsical charm to your style, now’s the perfect time to explore the enchanting world of Lolita fashion. And where better to start than with 42Lolita, a treasure trove of adorable and high-quality pieces? 42Lolita has many options straight from Chinese brands on Taobao. I used to use 42agent for my Taobao orders, and even though 42agent closed down, 42Lolita continues their legacy of providing accessible Lolita fashion.

To get 5% off your order, use my code XIAOLILICOS.

Whether you’re a seasoned Lolita or just starting to dip your toes in, this post will inspire you with some pieces from 42Lolita to refresh your wardrobe for the new year.

First, the foundation!

  • Petticoat: Aurora Ariel 45cm A Line Lolita Fashion Petticoat – I have this petticoat, and it’s fluffy, comfy, and perfect for A-line silhouettes!
  • If you need a petticoat for a longer dress, I also have this 60cm one. It’s very strong and puffy, so I’d recommend it for dresses and skirts with heavier fabrics and lots of volume.
  • Manyiluo Adjustable Lolita Hoop Skirt – The hoop skirt I currently use is from this brand but I don’t think they have the same style anymore. Even though I don’t have this particular hoop skirt, I want to get this in the future because I love how it’s adjustable! It will be a versatile basic. Personally, I love wearing hoop skirts instead of petticoats in the summertime because it’s much cooler.

If you’re looking for a specific item, let me know and I can try to find them for you. Read on to see some pieces that caught my eye; I divided them up by substyle.

Sweet Lolita

Classic Lolita:

Gothic Lolita:

Let me know which piece is your favorite! Don’t forget to use my code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order. If you’re looking for someone to help you with personal shopping or styling, you can also book me as your shopper and/or stylist here.

Happy New Year, everyone! Hope you have an amazing 2025.

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