Chanel Ali: Relative Stranger – A Hilarious Solo Journey at SoHo Playhouse

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New York, NY — I had the privilege of attending Chanel Ali’s off-Broadway debut at SoHo Playhouse with her powerfully personal solo show, “Relative Stranger.” Making her theatrical debut after establishing herself in the stand-up comedy world, Ali delivers what can only be described as a masterclass in vulnerability wrapped in razor-sharp humor.

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“Relative Stranger” isn’t your typical comedy show—it’s a deeply personal excavation of identity, family trauma, and the unexpected ways our past can resurface when we least expect it. Ali takes us on a journey through her tumultuous foster care childhood, her mother’s struggle with schizophrenia, and the court-ordered paternity test that introduced her to her police officer father when she was 18.

What struck me most about Ali’s performance was her incredible ability to navigate between heartbreak and hilarity without ever feeling fake or manipulative. When she quips about being “a cocoa Chanel” or shares her preference for Matilda over Annie in the fictional foster-child canon, these moments of levity feel earned rather than forced.

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The staging at SoHo Playhouse creates an intimate atmosphere that perfectly serves Ali’s storytelling style. She moves through the space with the confidence of a seasoned performer, drawing the audience into her world through vivid storytelling and impeccable comedic timing. There’s something deeply cathartic about watching someone transform their trauma into art that manages to be both deeply personal and universally relatable.

Ali proves herself to be a sharp storyteller who knows exactly when to ease up on the jokes and let the inherently gripping nature of her story speak for itself. The show becomes a meditation on what it means to search for family, identity, and belonging—themes that resonate long after the final bow.

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New Year, New Wardrobe: Lolita Fashion

The new year is a time for fresh starts, new goals, and…a new wardrobe! If you’re looking to add elegance and whimsical charm to your style, now’s the perfect time to explore the enchanting world of Lolita fashion. And where better to start than with 42Lolita, a treasure trove of adorable and high-quality pieces? 42Lolita has many options straight from Chinese brands on Taobao. I used to use 42agent for my Taobao orders, and even though 42agent closed down, 42Lolita continues their legacy of providing accessible Lolita fashion.

To get 5% off your order, use my code XIAOLILICOS.

Whether you’re a seasoned Lolita or just starting to dip your toes in, this post will inspire you with some pieces from 42Lolita to refresh your wardrobe for the new year.

First, the foundation!

  • Petticoat: Aurora Ariel 45cm A Line Lolita Fashion Petticoat – I have this petticoat, and it’s fluffy, comfy, and perfect for A-line silhouettes!
  • If you need a petticoat for a longer dress, I also have this 60cm one. It’s very strong and puffy, so I’d recommend it for dresses and skirts with heavier fabrics and lots of volume.
  • Manyiluo Adjustable Lolita Hoop Skirt – The hoop skirt I currently use is from this brand but I don’t think they have the same style anymore. Even though I don’t have this particular hoop skirt, I want to get this in the future because I love how it’s adjustable! It will be a versatile basic. Personally, I love wearing hoop skirts instead of petticoats in the summertime because it’s much cooler.

If you’re looking for a specific item, let me know and I can try to find them for you. Read on to see some pieces that caught my eye; I divided them up by substyle.

Sweet Lolita

Classic Lolita:

Gothic Lolita:

Let me know which piece is your favorite! Don’t forget to use my code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order. If you’re looking for someone to help you with personal shopping or styling, you can also book me as your shopper and/or stylist here.

Happy New Year, everyone! Hope you have an amazing 2025.

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Introducing 42Lolita

Have you heard of 42Lolita? 42Lolita is the official Lolita shop of 42agent. I’ve been a loyal customer of 42agent since 2013 (back in their Taobaoring days!). You may have seen my blog posts about Taobao shopping (here: post 1, post 2, and post 3). Lots of great Lolita indie brands are on Taobao, and 42Lolita makes it even easier to snag cute clothes and accessories. If you’d like to shop there, use my code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order!

The pre-order for this collab between Taobao brand NyaNya and Puella Magi Madoka Magica ended on May 31, but 42lolita reserved some extras for customers who missed the reservation. If you’re a lolita who’s also a fan of this anime, these two OPs are perfect for you!

Don’t miss out if you’re interested in these– right now, only sizes XL and 2XL are still available.

If you’re looking for a staple piece available in a variety of sizes, I found this cute summer lolita blouse. It’s still available in sizes ranging from XS to 2XL, plus there’s a customized size option. The Taobao brand is Miss Cube.

It’s also made from cotton, which I love to wear during hot days!

If you’re interested in upgrading your petticoat to a hoop skirt for the summer, I found this Lolita hoop skirt for only $7.99! It’s a great deal. A few years ago, I got my first hoopskirt, and I love wearing it on really hot days since it keeps the voluminous shape for the skirts, but it lets my legs breathe.

I am pretty sure this hoopskirt is the same one I bought a few years ago through 42agent. Now that they have 42lolita, it’s much easier to shop!

If you’re looking for a cute bag, this Boguta bow bag has been super popular.

It comes in many different colorways. I love the oversized bow design! It also comes with two sets of detachable straps so you can switch it up between the faux leather ruffle straps or the pearl chain straps. You can wear this bag as a backpack, shoulder bag, or handheld bag. It also comes in 3 different sizes!

If you’ve shopped at 42lolita before, I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Don’t forget to use my coupon code XIAOLILICOS for 5% off your order! Thanks for reading, and happy shopping. 🙂

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