The Opposite of Love

As a huge fan of theatre, I was excited to be invited as a member of press to attend “The Opposite of Love,” presented by NewYorkRep. This play was staged at the Royal Family Performing Arts Space in New York City, a beautiful venue with an intimate setting in a restored landmark building.

Theatre has always been a space where complex human emotions are laid bare, inviting audiences to confront issues, reflect on meaning, and empathize with characters. “The Opposite of Love” is no exception. This powerful play dives deep into themes of love, intimacy, trauma, and healing, offering a poignant exploration that resonates on multiple levels.

Opening night photo – May 30, 2024, by Jeremy Varner

Trigger Warnings

“The Opposite of Love” tackles potentially triggering topics, including:

  • Sexual abuse, asssault, and non-consensual acts
  • Emotional and psychological trauma
  • Discussion of suicide
  • Graphic sexual language
  • Depictions of intimacy
Production photo by Jeremy Varner

The Story

“The Opposite of Love” is a contemporary drama set in NYC that centers around two characters: a young wealthy woman who is grappling with the aftermath of childhood sexual trauma and a down-on-his-luck male prostitute who learns more about himself and his own trauma. In the script, Eloise is described as a beautiful girl with tragic thoughts and Will is described as a tragic boy with beautiful thoughts. These descriptions ring true!

When we think about the opposite of love, the first thing that comes to mind is hatred but actually — the opposite of love is really indifference.

Production photo by Jeremy Varner

The Talkback with NYSCASA

Following the performance, there was an insightful and impactful talkback session with the cast of the play and a representative from the New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NYSCASA). NYSCASA plays a crucial role in supporting survivors of sexual violence and advocating for systemic change to prevent future violence. They are working to create a world where survivors are believed, supported, and empowered to heal.

The talkbalk highlighted the importance of community support and resources for those affected by sexual violence. It was a reminder of the real-world implications of the play’s themes and the ongoing efforts needed to address these critical issues.

The Cast and Crew

The strength of “The Opposite of Love” lies in its exceptional cast and crew, who bring the story to life with nuanced performances and sensitive direction.

Written by Ashley Griffin
Directed by Rachel Klein

Starring Danny Gardner as Will
Starring Ashley Griffin as Eloise

Set: Brendan Mc Cann
Lighting: Zach Pizza

Intimacy Director: Crista Marie Jackson

Stage Manager: Kelly Merritt

General Manager: Kaylin Kellin

Human beings…we’re not meant to be alone. To never be touched.

Eloise

The Opposite of Love has limited engagement plays until June 15. If you attend this play, I’d love to hear your feedback in the comments!

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Write a letter to your 100-year-old self.

Dear Future Me,

I hope this letter finds you well! I can hardly imagine what life is like for you, at a hundred years old, but I’m excited to think about all the advancements and changes that have taken place since my time.

As I write this, the world is grappling with numerous challenges, from climate change to social inequality. I can only hope that in your time, some of these issues have been resolved. And if they haven’t been resolved, hopefully people are still fighting to make positive changes.

I wonder if you still remember me, the person who wrote this letter seventy years ago. Do you still cherish the same values and beliefs that I hold dear today, or have you evolved and grown in ways I can’t even fathom? Have you achieved your dreams and aspirations, or have you discovered new ones along the way? What is the world like, and how have you contributed to making it a better place?

I don’t have any of the answers at the moment, but I hope that wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, you’re happy. As I write this, I’m reminded of a moment in my elementary school when I wrote a letter to myself in the future. The year I graduated from high school, my teacher mailed me the letter. I had totally forgotten about the letter I wrote back then, and it was so cool to read it! I did the same thing my first year of college, during the pre-orientation program — and that time, the letter was mailed to me after graduating with my Bachelor’s degree. Most recently, I attended a conference for work where we wrote a letter to our past self. And now, here I am on my blog, writing a letter to my future self.

One of my hobbies since I was a child was letter writing, and I hope I will continue writing letters to pen pals as well as to myself.

In conclusion, dear Future Me, I wish you all the best. I hope that your life has been filled with love, laughter, and purpose. If you find yourself looking back at the past and you read this, remember that there was someone in 2023 who wrote this letter to you.

Love,

Yourself

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